Mother is the greatest gift that God gives to us. Do not waste our time to do good to him while he was still alive.
1. A young mother thought: “if the pregnancy would have been nice”
The reality: so tired to go anywhere while ngebawa baby in her belly for 9 months! wearing clothes so difficult because of the narrowness all, n must have alternating WC because of nausea and vomiting.
The reality: so tired to go anywhere while ngebawa baby in her belly for 9 months! wearing clothes so difficult because of the narrowness all, n must have alternating WC because of nausea and vomiting.
But: all paid off when we started kicking her stomach and we play our first heartbeat.
2. Exciting and fun deh will have children.
The reality: tired of preparing the prospective baby equipment, ranging from beds, toys, toiletries and more. Not to mention when the baby sick.
But: not comparable provided we will feel happy when using it.
3. Childbirth is the long-awaited moment.
The reality: super tired n exhausting, and of course really sick ..
But: a moment all the pain and fatigue disappeared when she listened to our cries for the first time.
4. Hoping to breastfeeding as possible, as recommended by your doctor.
In fact: every day should be carrying and nursing the baby, who
certainly very tiring.
certainly very tiring.
But: all paid off when he saw the day we grow big and fat, grow big and healthy as breast milk that she gave.
5. Many young mothers thinkers: “I hope my kids to grow up and can walk, so I’m not tired of being held back.” The reality: WRONG! Even more tired anymore because the mother had to run, run here and there because the kids like to run.
But: from his eyes that he was really glad that our legs are getting stronger and able to be used to run. Not only is he always in pursuit of us, but when we walked up to him.
6. After the child goes to school: “at last for several hours children are in school and be a little break”
The reality: to be more hard work, because of increasingly expensive school fees. In fact, should get up earlier to prepare breakfast and shopping the market. Just imagine every morning’ve fitness lift-lift groceries fire: he will feel very happy when we hear every morning with a temper not want to go to school, saying, “later
I want to be a pilot …! want to be president ..! “or the other.
I want to be a pilot …! want to be president ..! “or the other.
7. As a teenager, the child should have started to have started off as an adult.
The reality: even a nuisance because of trial and error dating. Not yet started to fuss’m buying mobile phones, increase money for snacks, or anything else.
But: they feel good because it seems they’re nostalgic when she saw us. Because maybe what we do now have they do too.
8. When adult children can mean off, was given full responsibility for his life.
The reality: they will keep busy helping the process of marriage. Collecting money for wedding expenses, and even helped write invitation cards one by one.
But: but actually they are doing without coercion, even they do it with love and passion, as they seolah2
who want to get married again.
who want to get married again.
9. Already have a husband, so it’s not my responsibility.
In fact: remains a place to vent, his name is also a new partner, like there is a problem. Sometimes also still helps take care of grandchildren.
But: their grandchildren who are always troublesome, might actually be a gift to Two of our greatest we can give. (Yes the birth of our own no.1)
10. “When I die, then it was over my role as a mother.”
The reality: he will continue to pray for us from up there. He did not will never leave us, even though physically he was dead.
But: ga pake buts again this time. It turned out that a mother is never at rest. So do not postpone it off any time if he asks for help something to us. Do not say: “whoa … ya tired, just come home from school!” or the like, because all his life, he has taken the trouble to us.
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